Lesson 1, Topic 1
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음란물 보는 행동은 어디서 일어나고 있나요? 집인가요? 음란물을 보지 않겠다고 결심한 많은 사람들이 집에 혼자 남게 되는 것이 가장 골치아픈 일로 여겨 집니다. 왜냐하면 아무도 집에 없을 때 음란물을 보게 될 소지가 많아지기 때문입니다.
하지만 그것과 정반대로, 집이라는 공간은 회복에 있어서 가장 안전한 공간이 되어야 합니다. 세상에 너무나 많은 장소들이 우리가 통제 할 수없는 것들로 가득 차있고, 기대 하지 않았던 트리거(신호)들을 직면하게 됩니다. 집은 우리가 100% 통제가 가능한 공간이지요.
다음 몇일 동안은 순결의 여행기간 동안 당신의 집을 안전지대로 만드는 방법을 알아보도록 하겠습니다.
1단계 – 당신의 집을 둘러보고 음란물이나 음란하다고 여겨지는 어떤 것이라도 즉시 제거 하세요.
2단계 – 미래에 나타날 수 있는 음란물 접근을 막기
집에서 음란물을 볼 수 없도록 막는 몇가지 전략을 알려드릴께요. 100% 예방법은 없습니다. 하지만 음란물을 보고 싶도록 계기가 되는 것들을 제거하는 노력을 할 수 있습니다.
컴퓨터, 휴대폰에 부모님 관리 어플, 프로그램을 설치 합니다.
그린i-Net2.0 홈페이지(www.greeninet.or.kr)에서 무료로 제공하고 있는 6개의 청소년 유해정보 필터링 S/W는 기본적으로 모두 컴퓨터 사용시간 관리 기능을 포함하고 있습니다. 게임 및 인터넷 사용시간 제한 기능의 경우, 학부모나 교사가 6개의 프로그램의 기능을 비교하여 선택할 수 있도록 다양한 정보를 제공하고 있습니다.
아마도 지금 ‘나는 그런거 필요없어. 그런거 없이도 잘 할 수 있어’ 라고 생각할 수 있습니다.
하지만 필요합니다.
필요없다고 하는 마음의 소리가 어디서부터 들려오는지 보세요. 스스로를 지키기 위해서 하는 일들을 왜 하지 않으려고 할까요? 자존심? 아직도 ‘나는 음란물 보는 사람’이라는 것을 인정하지 못하고 계신가요?
이기는 게임을 하세요. 지금 소개해드린 방법들이 게임을 이기는 최고의 도구들입니다. 심지어 저희 직원들도 몇년의 순결한 생활을 하면서도 잠정적인 유혹들을 막기 위해서 이러한 프로그램을 설치하고 지속적인 순결한 삶을 위해서 노력하고 있습니다.
During this event Benjy Uyama will be sharing his thoughts on a topic that he is very passionate about: High Noon’s role in the future of our movement! He will be explaining how High Noon fits into the grand goal to bless 30,000 people in the next 7 years, and even what we can do as individuals. You won’t want to miss this inspiring and informative talk.
There will be small breakouts to discuss this topic and to interact with your fellow volunteers. In the latter half of the event, we will be having a split facilitator and AP time where you can ask questions and receive support.
We would love to see you all there!
It is our commitment to create a safe place where all facilitators and accountability partners are welcome. As this event is all about connection, please come prepared to show your face and to talk.
We want to respect everyone’s schedule so we will be starting promptly at 4:00 pm EST and ending at 5:30 pm EST (10:00 pm – 11:30 pm CET).
HN could not have the impact it has had without the committed and consistent support of our group facilitators and accountability partners. We want to up our support for all of you, and focus on creating a feeling of community amongst all the volunteers.
That is why we have decided to begin a new initiative: a monthly Ascend Volunteer Event! This event will include time to get to know your fellow facilitators and APs, share testimonies, receive education and tips, and have meaningful discussion.
More details will be released soon!
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連絡先：atsue@kr.highnoon.org / LINE: atskpk
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Richard & Mari Curry have been Blessed in married since December 2005 and have four children. They love working together as a team and are passionate about caring for others, especially in the realm of marriage development. After Mari received her Masters of Divinity from Cheongshim Theological Seminary, she and Richard served as co-pastors in Florida. Since then, they moved to New Jersey and over the years have happily served in a variety of ministry roles from music to education. All the while, working together to serve the Blessed Marriage Project and now High Noon Couples. They were a part of the founding team in 2013 and have been a part of it ever since. They currently serve as the directors of Highnoon Couples. They love the Energize! Retreats because they help realize True Parent’s desire for healthy couples and reminds us of Heavenly Parent’s love and hope for us all!
Contact Mari at: mari@kr.highnoon.org |
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Crescentia & Leighton DeGoede have been Blessed in married since October 2010, and have three children. Crescentia is currently serving as the District Pastor of district 3 and local pastor of the Clifton Family Church. Previously Crescentia was the Director of the National Blessing and Family Ministry of FFWPU for six years. Both Leighton and Crescentia currently serve as Matching Supporters. Prioritizing their marriage, while juggling children, work, and community service has been an exciting challenge. But they continue to find that the more they invest in their marriage, the more they have to give in all areas of their lives. They love giving other couples the opportunity to infuse their marriages with love deposits through marriage enrichment programs. |
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Christoph & Lena Yasutake have been Blessed in marriage since April 2002 and have three teenagers. They are both equally passionate about marriage education and helping blessed couples create happy and healthy families. The Energize! Retreats are one of their favorite ways to share this passion. They served in the Young Couples ministry for six years and are frequent guest speakers at Blessing Workshops. |
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Kate Pugnoli has served as the Community Liaison and is also responsible for generating our monthly newsletter. A former journalist, she has a Masters of Religious Education from the Unification Theological Seminary where she took focused her studies on counseling courses. She has also had experience facilitating small groups. The mother of two sons, now Blessed in marriage, she lives in Tucson, AZ with her husband Simon Herbert. She is committed to working with the Blessed Marriage Project in hopes that marriage enrichment will be available to communities across the country and particularly to bring the Energize! Couples Retreat to as many couples as possible. |
The Blessed Marriage Project (BMP) is an independently funded, grassroots initiative by Blessed couples for Blessed couples. Its programs welcome Blessed couples and married Blessed family members of every age and at every stage of marriage, and from every part of our Unificationist families community.
The mission of BMP is:
The initiative was conceived by two families in 2013, and formally launched the following year, with the donor couple generously giving $100,000 to cover annual expenses. Now their contribution has been over $200,000 annually, to include the related PureMind.Online initiative. (Read more history.)
The BMP is a 501(c)(3) tax exempt non-profit organization (meet the Board of Directors). The programming is led by professional Unificationist marriage educators.
In 2015, the Project began experimenting with new retreat formats, and expanding its menu of educational resources, most notably, PureMind.Online, to help combat the threat that pornography represents to Blessed couples.
Currently, the primary offering of the BMP is its Energize! Couples Retreats, which are designed for Blessed spouses to experience God’s love through a refreshing opportunity to learn useful information and tools, bond and enjoy each other as spouses, and to connect with other Blessed couples. To anchor the benefits in couples’ lives, the Retreat launches an opportunity for a local Small Group experience, and ongoing educational and supportive events and resources.
The purpose of the BMP also includes training young Unificationists to learn to carry out such programming in the future. In addition, the Project provides for training volunteers to facilitate Small Groups and Seminars among past participants and other married couples in their local church communities. The team is looking for other young people with a passion to support couples to join our staff, as well as older members to partners with us and contribute their skills.
The Project is offering Energize! Couples Retreats in 2017 depending upon what hosting communities contribute in terms of funding and local staff, and how their open dates coincide with the availability of BMP staff. We encourage interested communities and potential donors to contact our staff.
Please contact Mitsue Wolfenberger at mwolfenberger@gmail.com.
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