음란물의 정의가 무엇인지에 대해서 생각해 보신 적 있나요? 너무 기본적인 질문같이 느껴질 수 있습니다. 1960년대 미국에서는 ‘극장에서 음란물이 상영되어서는 안된다’라는 소송이 일어났습니다. 그리고 똑똑한 사람들이 모여서 음란물이 무엇인지 결정하기 위해서 긴 시간을 소비했습니다. 심사숙고 끝내 내려진 음란물의 의미는?
“보는 그 순간 그것이 음란물인지 안다.”
라며, 정의를 내렸습니다.
“음탕하고 난잡한 내용을 담은 책이나 그림, 사진, 영화, 비디오테이프 따위를 통틀어 이르는 말. ”
“Printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate erotic rather than aesthetic or emotional feelings.”
영어로는 “미학적이거나 감정적임 느낌을 주기 보다 성적인 자극을 주기 위한 목적으로 만들어진” 이라는 문장이 추가 되어있습니다.
아주 분명한 것 처럼 보이지만 깊이 들여다 보면 많은 질문이 떠오릅니다. 인터넷은 어떻게 분별하지? 만약에 어떤 사람이 온전히 미에 중심을 맞추었다면 음란물이 아닌것인가? 많은 유튜브 영상들은 성적으로 자극적인데, 그것도 음란물로 분별할 수 있을까?
많은 질문들에 대한 논쟁은 돈에서 멈추게 됩니다. 성은 판매되고 있습니다. 대중문화에서도 최대한 성을 상품화 해서 판매 하고자 하고 있거든요. 청소년관람불가 영상보다는 전체이용가 혹은 15세 이상 관람가가 훨씬 많은 대상이 관객이 됩니다.
여기서 멈춰서 회복에 과정에서 음란물의 단순한 정의를 제공하고자 합니다.
“배우자 이외의 성적으로 자극을 주는 어떤 것”
순결의 삶에서 우리의 목표는 성적관계를 내 배우자 이외의 어느 누구하고도 가지지 않는 것입니다. 아름답고 엄청난 성관계를 나의 배우자와 하는 것입니다. 다른 이외의 것에 자극을 받게 되면 배우자와의 그러한 성관계를 하게 되는 것과 점점 멀어지겠죠.
초기 단계에서 노란 동그라미를 끊어내는데 어려움이 많을 거예요. (레슨 3.1 트리거101 참고하세요) 페이스북에서 몇몇의 지인들이 올리는 행복한, 즐거운 사진을 본다던지, 약간 야하긴 하지만 재미있는 유튜브 채널을 보기도 하지요. 이러한 것들도 위험 신호가 될 수 있습니다. 작은 신호들이 모여서 엔돌핀을 주게 되지요. 그리고 나도 모르게 “어디까지가 음란물일까” 게임을 시작하게 됩니다.
작은 신호들을 하나씩 잘라내면, 순결의 삶에서 더 큰 성공을 볼 수 있게 됩니다.
어떤 노란 동그라미 활동들, 작은 위험 신호들을 잘라낼 필요가 있을까요?
During this event Benjy Uyama will be sharing his thoughts on a topic that he is very passionate about: High Noon’s role in the future of our movement! He will be explaining how High Noon fits into the grand goal to bless 30,000 people in the next 7 years, and even what we can do as individuals. You won’t want to miss this inspiring and informative talk.
There will be small breakouts to discuss this topic and to interact with your fellow volunteers. In the latter half of the event, we will be having a split facilitator and AP time where you can ask questions and receive support.
We would love to see you all there!
It is our commitment to create a safe place where all facilitators and accountability partners are welcome. As this event is all about connection, please come prepared to show your face and to talk.
We want to respect everyone’s schedule so we will be starting promptly at 4:00 pm EST and ending at 5:30 pm EST (10:00 pm – 11:30 pm CET).
HN could not have the impact it has had without the committed and consistent support of our group facilitators and accountability partners. We want to up our support for all of you, and focus on creating a feeling of community amongst all the volunteers.
That is why we have decided to begin a new initiative: a monthly Ascend Volunteer Event! This event will include time to get to know your fellow facilitators and APs, share testimonies, receive education and tips, and have meaningful discussion.
More details will be released soon!
ただいま日本語のビデオコースの作成中です。完了次第ご連絡させていただきます。
祝福を受けて5年以内の女性を対象としたグループです。
連絡先:atsue@kr.highnoon.org / LINE: atskpk
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Richard & Mari Curry have been Blessed in married since December 2005 and have four children. They love working together as a team and are passionate about caring for others, especially in the realm of marriage development. After Mari received her Masters of Divinity from Cheongshim Theological Seminary, she and Richard served as co-pastors in Florida. Since then, they moved to New Jersey and over the years have happily served in a variety of ministry roles from music to education. All the while, working together to serve the Blessed Marriage Project and now High Noon Couples. They were a part of the founding team in 2013 and have been a part of it ever since. They currently serve as the directors of Highnoon Couples. They love the Energize! Retreats because they help realize True Parent’s desire for healthy couples and reminds us of Heavenly Parent’s love and hope for us all!
Contact Mari at: mari@kr.highnoon.org |
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Crescentia & Leighton DeGoede have been Blessed in married since October 2010, and have three children. Crescentia is currently serving as the District Pastor of district 3 and local pastor of the Clifton Family Church. Previously Crescentia was the Director of the National Blessing and Family Ministry of FFWPU for six years. Both Leighton and Crescentia currently serve as Matching Supporters. Prioritizing their marriage, while juggling children, work, and community service has been an exciting challenge. But they continue to find that the more they invest in their marriage, the more they have to give in all areas of their lives. They love giving other couples the opportunity to infuse their marriages with love deposits through marriage enrichment programs. |
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Christoph & Lena Yasutake have been Blessed in marriage since April 2002 and have three teenagers. They are both equally passionate about marriage education and helping blessed couples create happy and healthy families. The Energize! Retreats are one of their favorite ways to share this passion. They served in the Young Couples ministry for six years and are frequent guest speakers at Blessing Workshops. |
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Kate Pugnoli has served as the Community Liaison and is also responsible for generating our monthly newsletter. A former journalist, she has a Masters of Religious Education from the Unification Theological Seminary where she took focused her studies on counseling courses. She has also had experience facilitating small groups. The mother of two sons, now Blessed in marriage, she lives in Tucson, AZ with her husband Simon Herbert. She is committed to working with the Blessed Marriage Project in hopes that marriage enrichment will be available to communities across the country and particularly to bring the Energize! Couples Retreat to as many couples as possible. |
The Blessed Marriage Project (BMP) is an independently funded, grassroots initiative by Blessed couples for Blessed couples. Its programs welcome Blessed couples and married Blessed family members of every age and at every stage of marriage, and from every part of our Unificationist families community.
The mission of BMP is:
The initiative was conceived by two families in 2013, and formally launched the following year, with the donor couple generously giving $100,000 to cover annual expenses. Now their contribution has been over $200,000 annually, to include the related PureMind.Online initiative. (Read more history.)
The BMP is a 501(c)(3) tax exempt non-profit organization (meet the Board of Directors). The programming is led by professional Unificationist marriage educators.
In 2015, the Project began experimenting with new retreat formats, and expanding its menu of educational resources, most notably, PureMind.Online, to help combat the threat that pornography represents to Blessed couples.
Currently, the primary offering of the BMP is its Energize! Couples Retreats, which are designed for Blessed spouses to experience God’s love through a refreshing opportunity to learn useful information and tools, bond and enjoy each other as spouses, and to connect with other Blessed couples. To anchor the benefits in couples’ lives, the Retreat launches an opportunity for a local Small Group experience, and ongoing educational and supportive events and resources.
The purpose of the BMP also includes training young Unificationists to learn to carry out such programming in the future. In addition, the Project provides for training volunteers to facilitate Small Groups and Seminars among past participants and other married couples in their local church communities. The team is looking for other young people with a passion to support couples to join our staff, as well as older members to partners with us and contribute their skills.
The Project is offering Energize! Couples Retreats in 2017 depending upon what hosting communities contribute in terms of funding and local staff, and how their open dates coincide with the availability of BMP staff. We encourage interested communities and potential donors to contact our staff.
Please contact Mitsue Wolfenberger at mwolfenberger@gmail.com.
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